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PostPosted: Mon Mar 22, 2010 3:42 am    Post subject: lying problem Reply with quote

i am in an amazing relationship with a boy that i love very very much and will probably marry. he is aware of the abuse i've been through in the past and does not think any differently of me because of it. for some reason i have a lying problem. it's always about something that i know i shouldn't do and then i lie about it and i get caught every time but for some reason i can't stop. in my head i feel like at the time it's justified because i am just trying to not cause trouble or start a fight. i feel like because of my abuse (which i have kept a secret from nearly everyone i am close to) i don't know why i do it because it is stupid and it just messes up my relationship. i had to go so long being scared and hiding what happened to me and lying and acting like nothing ever happened that it just happens. it just comes out, then i get scared to get in trouble so i just don't fess up. it keeps happening. i know that i need help/advice .i feel so disappointed in myself for being to terrible to someone that i care so much about and i just want to be able to make it right and not feel like i have to lie.
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 22, 2010 5:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

seriously, any insight/advice would mean a lot.
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