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Rosie
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 7:35 pm    Post subject: talkin bout it Reply with quote

why is it everyone thinks saying what is wrong is gonna make you feel better? where did they come up with that? because I have yet to tell someone anything that made me feel better. so...where did that idea come from?
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 9:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It comes from having been there and it works.

you do however have to choose wisely who to tell. Eventually, with enough practise and healing, you'll be able to tell everyone, randomly, without the feelings of fear and shame.

There's freedom in that. being able to tell it just as you would tell people where you work or what school you go to.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 11:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

it hasn't helped me by talkign to anyone about it. all it does is make it hurt worse and make me angry. then others wanna know and just bug you to tell them and never shut up about it. UGH. this sucks. i dont want to do this anymore.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 3:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rosie, I'm in the same place. We'll get through it together.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

what if i dont want to get through it anymore?
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 4:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know anything right now?
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

no one does.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rosie hun,

this too will pass...

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 9:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

no it wont. it wont. cuz i'm alone and by myself and i hate it. i need someone here. i dont have anyone. Crying or Very sad
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 5:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It will pass Rosie, you won't always be this alone. I know it sucks bigtime right now, but it will pass.

just have to get through the sucky bits first...

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