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  Topic: can't have a normal lifestyle like everyone else
YankeeBob

Replies: 6
Views: 10422

PostForum: Revictimization   Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2011 9:38 am   Subject: relationships
perhaps you need to know how to do relationships....say by having someone else present in the beginning.

does that make sense ?
  Topic: how can i make my husband understand
YankeeBob

Replies: 1
Views: 5177

PostForum: Family Problems   Posted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 4:25 pm   Subject: Thank you for the courage to put this post out there.
I am not sure it is possible to explain insanity to some who has never struggled with it.

Is it possible that your husband hates the behaviour that you had in the past and are now free of ?

Tru ...
  Topic: Jealousy
YankeeBob

Replies: 3
Views: 6764

PostForum: Topic Suggestions   Posted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 4:19 pm   Subject: Jealousy issue...
....you know Self Esteem is something we are not born with.

If we were raised in a loving family, supportive community...then we would grow with a sense of self worth, of love, and of belonging. ...
  Topic: Seeking a Loving Committed Relationship
YankeeBob

Replies: 8
Views: 8208

PostForum: Intimacy Issues   Posted: Sat Jun 20, 2009 3:43 pm   Subject: Please accept my apology if I was inappropriate.
To Carter in particular.

No, I make no money or receive any financial reward from the relationship counsellor I was citing.

As for the reference to my views on the use of 12 Step fellowships f ...
  Topic: Seeking a Loving Committed Relationship
YankeeBob

Replies: 8
Views: 8208

PostForum: Intimacy Issues   Posted: Thu Jun 18, 2009 2:43 pm   Subject: Seeking a Loving Committed Relationship
Thanks for letting me post Ivonne.

I don't do this often.

In life there is an "illusion" that men and women "fall in love", "get married" and "live happily e ...
  Topic: My counsellor and me..
YankeeBob

Replies: 2
Views: 4974

PostForum: Intimacy Issues   Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 3:26 pm   Subject: welcome to this site.
I like others admire your courage in speaking out.

And seeking to find a new, healthier life.

Fear of Intimacy is a very complex issue. Men have it as much as women do.

You may find it hel ...
  Topic: another fight and i'm going nuts!!!!!
YankeeBob

Replies: 3
Views: 4625

PostForum: Family Problems   Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 3:14 pm   Subject: Why are we so sensitive to the words of others ?
A challenge in life is to work out whether we let words.....

1) hurt us like arrows that pierce our flesh,

or

2) pass over us like a summer wind. We sense it touch us lightly but choose not ...
  Topic: I Feel-but I don`t Feel
YankeeBob

Replies: 1
Views: 2770

PostForum: Suicide/Self-harm/mutilation   Posted: Mon Apr 13, 2009 10:37 am   Subject: Good to see you here
Greetings Storm.

As we say on this site to all..."You are not alone".

Keep coming back.

Your friend in Australia.

YankeeBob
  Topic: I feel sick when i think of him
YankeeBob

Replies: 1
Views: 2817

PostForum: Suicide/Self-harm/mutilation   Posted: Mon Apr 13, 2009 10:35 am   Subject: Anger .....how can we let go of this energy
There is nothing I can write or say that will ease your pain.

The buddhist education I found helpful raises the point that "my thoughts trigger my feelings".

So you may decide...when ...
  Topic: What is it?
YankeeBob

Replies: 8
Views: 25036

PostForum: Revictimization   Posted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 12:18 pm   Subject: Discussing revictimization...
Hi my name is Bob, and I am a recoverying sex addict. This means I go to a 12 Step Meeting for men and women who are trying to stop their compulsive sexual behaviour, and shut down/reduce/starve their ...
 
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